Who to blame for extra-marital affairs?

Was talking (gossiping more like it) with colleagues of mine about one of our ex-colleague (lets call her pompuan) who is dating a married man (lets call him jantan). Si Pompuan is aware that Jantan is married with a kid but somehow love and attraction blossom between them. Pompuan tries her best to hide but her action and accidental blurting makes everyone find out.

Ok back to topic…this colleague of mine (call her A) feels that it could due to Jantan wife did not treat him well or etc. While another colleague feels that its Jantan who is at fault for
1. having affair
2. mislead Pompuan into it.

Colleague A feels that what happen in the marriage we don’t know. So we should not put the blame to anyone. (so diplomatic kan hehe)

Want to know how I see this whole story…who to blame or at fault…

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Buat bodoh sudah la…..bukan rumahtangga aku…buat ape aku jadi makcik tingkap kan..hehe

Have a great weekend people....I'm going shopping. YEAH HA!